How to Change
Katy Milkman offers practical ways to change behavior. Some of the book’s supporting stories need correction, and a deadline paper it cites has since been retracted.
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Why is behavior change so hard? Learn what shapes people’s actions, why common advice falls short, and how to find approaches that fit the person and the situation.
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You might want to exercise more, help customers use a product, or change how your team works. Before choosing a technique, it helps to understand what you’re asking people to do—and whether it makes sense for them.
These lessons connect the research to those practical questions. Start with the change you want, examine the evidence, consider the people involved, and compare possible actions before trying one. Each lesson includes examples, sources, and a short exercise.
Choose what you want to accomplish before deciding what people must do.
Find out what a study actually supports and whether the difference is worth acting on.
Choose with the person’s enduring tendencies and actual circumstances in mind.
Compare different routes to the same outcome and choose an action worth trying.
Try the behavior in your actual life, then use what happens to make the next choice.
Which behavioral science findings hold up? Read 14 evidence reviews that compare original studies with replications, later research and retractions.
We examine the claims, check the sources, and assess the practical advice in popular psychology and behavioral science books.
Katy Milkman offers practical ways to change behavior. Some of the book’s supporting stories need correction, and a deadline paper it cites has since been retracted.
Read the reviewMorgan Housel offers useful advice about saving, patience, and preparing for setbacks. His claims about what matters most in wealth and happiness are less reliable.
Read the reviewMel Robbins’s acceptance-and-action idea is most useful in ordinary life. Its scientific and clinical extensions need much more care.
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Have a particular question? Explore personality, habits, decision-making, and the evidence behind behavior-change techniques. Each subject brings together lessons, guides, and reference material.
What are you trying to accomplish, and what could someone actually do to get there? Start with those questions before choosing a behavior-change technique.
A published result can be real, small, and of little use to your decision. Learn to examine effect sizes, replications, and what a study actually measured.
People have enduring tendencies, different interests, and everyday responsibilities. Learn how personality, skills, and circumstances affect which activities are likely to suit them.
Choose the behavior before designing the intervention. Compare alternatives by what they could accomplish, what they demand, and whether people actually want to do them.
Starting can become familiar while the work itself still needs attention. Learn which parts of an activity can become automatic and which still need thought and effort.
Before choosing a nudge or prompt, ask whether its likely effect is worth the work—and whether a different behavior would serve the goal better. Examine the methods, the evidence, and the alternatives.
Why do people choose as they do, and how much can you change those choices? Learn the concepts without confusing an interesting explanation with a reliable intervention.
Try a promising action in a real setting. Observe whether it happens and whether it helps, then decide what to keep or change.
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